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Author Archives: toju

Were You Invited…Or Did You Force Your Way In?

    Hello Etiquette Lovers, Is it just me or have you also noticed the trend of people getting upset when they get turned back at/from an event they were actually not invited to? Or getting upset because they didn’t get an invite for that wedding, bridal shower, birthday, etc. I mean really ‘vexing for’ … Continue reading »

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Etiquette, Tribalism and the I’m-Better-Than-You Mentality

Hello friends, I feel like I haven’t been here in ssooo long. I’ve missed you guys and I’ve been itching to post this. All my gadgets and social media accounts decided to go off on me over the last two weeks. Gosh! It was quite frustrating but I quickly got over it. The heavens haven’t … Continue reading »

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How to Get Rid of that Map of Africa!

    Everyone seemed to get a laugh from my last post; either at me or remembering a similar situation they had been in. While sweating is your body’s natural biological way of cooling you down to prevent over heating, having a sweat patch and worse still, having a lingering stain can be really embarrassing. … Continue reading »

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Sweat Patches a.k.a Map of Africa

  About two weeks ago, I needed to quickly go by two offices. As most days seem to be in Lagos, Nigeria, it was a very hot day that Wednesday. I figured I wouldn’t be out long and I also had no plans to ‘melt or fry’ in the sun. I decided to wear a … Continue reading »

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Mental Poise; Final Part

Hello friends, Hope you’ve had a great weekend and you have been able to control your facial expressions and thoughts better. Here’s the final part of the series with the last the points continuing from last week… 1. Guard your heart: closely related to editing your thoughts is guarding your heart. As a matter of … Continue reading »

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